Category: Jamie’s Life

The Limp & The Vet: Grey Update

Grey Update

Yesterday we noticed that Grey had quite a severe limp and, in fact, by the end of the day wasn’t putting his right paw down at all. The animal clinic advised us to keep his movement limited and give it 48 hours.

This morning, I was delighted to see him emerge from the kitty carrier and walk, albeit gingerly, on all fours. What a relief! Relief that lasted until I returned from popping out to the garden. He was so startled that he tried to jump up onto the counter and fell. He nipped into the cat carrier and didn’t move. For hours.

Just to be safe, I took advantage of the opportunity, slipped the door shut and took Grey to the vet. When we arrived, I was delighted to see “our” vet was working today. My heart just softened, remembering how she’d been there with my cat Jinx so often and with Shannon’s cat too, right at the end. It felt right to share the beginning of this new journey with her.

So I told the story of the abandonment and rescue, of the limp and of the fall. We put Grey on the ground so the vet could observe his gait and… he quickly scampered under the chair with no limp at all! Not a hint.

Perhaps he’d dislocated something and managed to pop it back in with the fall.  Perhaps it was the adrenalin. Just to be sure, our vet examined him closely and carefully and though he squirmed, he settled.

Not only is Grey just fine but our vet seemed to believe that with his behaviour today we had every reason to be hopeful that he’ll soften up too.

From Abandoned to Rescued: A Kitten Update

JRS The Triplets Feel at Home
photo by Justin

We’re just starting our fourth day with The Triplets and so far the signs are promising. Even this photo of them sprawled out and sleeping (can you see how Little Sister is holding Grey’s head? LOL!) tells a tale of settling in nicely. We’ve certainly moved past the dominant mood of “fear” and are now working to get through “wary.” All three cats now let us sit a little closer to them. We’ve managed to lightly touch Big Brother and Little Sister just for an instant and I’ve been able to sit beside Grey with my foot touching his side. On occasion each of the cats has actually moved in closer to us and Big Brother and Little Sister have both taken treats from our hand!

Big Brother Day 4

Big Brother is definitely warming up and often comes to sit near me. My heart just about bursts every time because he was the most afraid.

Grey Day 4

Grey continues to be the most gentle and reserved. We’re worried about him this morning because he has a very pronounced limp. We’re hoping he just got a little overzealous and tweaked a muscle. All the kitty parents out there are telling us that’s the likely cause. I’ll still call the vet this morning.

Little Sister Day 4

Yesterday I started calling Little Sister Little Miss Feisty. She loves to play and hunt and is full of personality. And when she sleeps – she is OUT! This morning when I entered the Kitten Zone, she was up on the piano looking out the window. When she saw me, she leaped down and came closer. And yesterday she jumped on a chair and curled up right beside Shannon’s legs! Progress!

I feel so amazed and blessed by this adventure. Last night I said to Justin, “Whatever happens, this is one of the most amazing experiences of my entire life.” I meant it.

Read the start of The Triplets adventure here.

If you want even more of these kittens, be sure to join me on Facebook and Instagram, plus I have created a Tumblr just for the journey!

 

Meet The Triplets

JRS Triplets Family Photo

We’re starting to get to know The Triplets better and seeing more of their personalities. I thought you’d like to be introduced to this ragtag trio. Now, because we’re not sure how these little ones will grow and where they will end up for sure, we’ve decided to give them ‘For Now” names. Let me introduce you to Big Brother, Little Sister & Grey (Discover how we ended up with three abandoned kittens here.)

Meet Big Brother
Big Brother

Big Brother is pure black and has an elegant long nose. He’s the boldest of the bunch when it comes to adventure. He’s the first to the window, the first to jump up, on and over anything. He’s also the most afraid of people. He was in a wild panic at the vet and he generally runs when we come near. We’ve definitely got to keep an eye on him and create a great sense of safety and love.

Meet Little Sister
Little Sister

Little sister is also pure black. She has a lovely round face and the most expressive ears! And wow, Little Sister is feisty!! She’s the bravest with people. In fact, I’m so excited to share that she even took a treat from my hand and licked my finger! She loves to hunt and is quick to bring out the “smack-down” paw.  We’re finding her absolutely hilarious!

Meet Grey
Grey

Don’t let this mug shot fool you, Grey is the gentlest of the bunch. Remember the vet said they might have slight colds? I think that has him extra quiet and looking serious today though it does seem to be in his nature to be observant and still. He’s also clearly smart. While the other kittens were playing with a toy on the end of a string, Grey was looking calmly at Shannon, who was making it move. There is something absolutely magnetic about this kitten.

I so appreciate all the love and support that we have received for The Triplets and all the encouragement we’ve received as rescuers. I know that every kind thought and positive word is a part of the circle of love that will help these little boos find their way. We’re taking it one day at a time with love, care and little bit of caution. No doubt we will have plenty of pictures to share and stories to tell!

The Triplets Go to the Vet (the third installment in the triplets saga and the big boy/girl reveal!)

Cat at the Vet
(Read The First Installment: How I Went Out for Coffee and Came Home with Three Kittens, The Second Installment: Getting Three Abandoned Kittens in a Box)

What’s the first thing you do when you rescue abandoned kittens? Take them to the vet.

(Okay, first you take as many pictures as you possibly can and then you take them to the vet.)

Keeping the triplets in the carrier and the box, I got on the phone to our animal clinic, where just two weeks ago we said goodbye to our dear Jinx.  Considering it was Friday afternoon, I hoped beyond hope they would fit us in. There was a small window of opportunity and we had to make it work. Without a car, it was quite a trip. We carried the little grey one over first and then I hurried back for the other two.

As I carried these kittens from place to place throughout the day I couldn’t help but remember when I brought home Jinx from the Humane Society all those years ago. I adopted her impulsively and the fee took the very last bit of my money. All the way home on the streetcar, Jinx in a box on my lap, I said to Shannon, “Did I just make a big mistake? Should I be turning around and taking her back right now?”

Well, I didn’t. I trusted my instincts and we had 20 years together.

JRS  Jamie & Jinx

Now I was faced with the same kinds of questions. What would the vet discover? Could we cover the cost of what these kittens needed? What had we (or, more rightly I) gotten us into?

JRS Jamie & Grey

The First: The first kitten out was the one we had seen behind the refrigerator. Now was our first chance to get a good look at the little grey. The minute this kitten came out of the box, I fell in love – the beautiful face, the shining grey fur and, of course, memories of our beloved Bascha who we lost years ago. As the vet started the examination, she told us that when cats are very afraid they tend to either freeze or go wild.  This little one was very still, except for the trembling, and didn’t resist the exam at all. Soon we knew that we had a “he” and this little boy was doing just fine.

The Second: Next the bigger black cat came out of the carrier and smashed its way over, under, through and behind – any direction that was away. The vet really had to work to get a hold of this beauty. When she finally did, she kept the kitten held down to the table by the scruff of the neck and that had a calming effect. Once again the results were good. Maybe a teeny-tiny sign of a cold that would clear up on its own but other than that, we had another healthy boy.

JRS Black Cat at the Vet

The Littlest: Then came the littlest – what a feisty kitten! The vet was able to get this one on the table but wow, this kitten didn’t anyone holding his/her scruff! Every grab resulted in ears back and a devastating look in the eye! The vet couldn’t help but laugh as again and again she got “The Look”! Despite the ferocity, the exam was completed and once again, good news! This healthy kitten is our one girl.

Amazingly, all three went back into the carriers fairly easily. Now that each kitten was de-wormed, immunized and had a clean bill of health, it was time to take them home.

Getting Three Abandoned Kittens in a Box (the second installment in the triplets saga)

Jamie & The Two Black Cats
photo by Shannon

(Read first installment)

I headed back with the cat carrier, thinking I’d get behind that fridge, plop the timid triplets in and get them home. My sister Shannon offered to help and, as we walked, she told me about a dream she’d had that very morning – a dream about babies and a kitten in our home.

Another sign.

When we arrived, the landlady took us up to the apartment and we were thrilled to see all three cats in the living room. We entered quickly and closed the French doors, but not before the little grey darted out and disappeared. We decided to focus on the remaining two. The big question was: what would be better, a quick grab or a long coax?

Thinking tough love might get them home sooner, I grabbed the towel we’d brought along and tried to wrap one up quickly. I got a gash on the heel of my hand as a thank you.

Okay, slow and steady it is.

The landlady kindly bandaged my hand, telling use we could take our time in the apartment while she got back to work. Before she left, she called the former tenant and it turned out he was willing to come by and help capture the cats. We were relieved, though I couldn’t help but wonder what it would be like to meet the person who had left these kittens behind.

Two cats and two humans spent the next hour in a gentle stand-off, with Shannon and I taking turns looking for hidden away grey.

Abandoned Black Cat

The former tenant arrived with a friend. They were a bit rough and unsteady but they set to it. The tenant lumbered right in and grabbed the closest kitten. That little being fought with all his might but the man held firm. He pulled the writhing, scratching cat into his body and then pushed the little dervish into the waiting carrier. Onto the next, a repeat performance. After a fierce but quick fight Cat 2 was contained and the tenant had a deep and bloody reminder across his hand.

As he put the scratch under running water, the tenant told us the cats had never been anywhere but here, never been outside. He told us not to rely on the carrier door but to hold it firm with our hands too. He seemed to care about the cats though he was clearly unable to care for them.

The cats were bigger than expected and we thought better of adding a third to the carrier. We decided to take the two black cats home and come back with a second carrier while the men searched for the grey. When we returned, the landlady said the kitten had come out when the two men were alone in the apartment. They had managed to get the little boo in a box.

There at the top of the stairs in a fruit box, tucked under a shelf with a weight on it, was the third of the kittens. We put a blanket over the box and carried the last one home.

(Read what happened next)

How I went out for a coffee and came home with three kittens (first installment)

Coffee with Danette

Yesterday I had a date at a lovely local coffee shop with my dear friend Danette Relic. I wanted her artistic input on a project, plus we were overdue for a good catch-up. About an hour before we met, I had reason to ask if we could switch our local to the bakery across the street. Little did I know this started the wheels of an adventure in motion!

After a rich visit full of inspiration and sharing, Danette and I headed out, both of us needing to pop by the art store. On the way a sign in front of a fruit market caught my eye.

free kittens

I don’t know why but I felt that sign was meant for me. I looked at Danette, “Is it bad for me to go look?” She said, “Is it ever bad to go look at kittens?” We stepped into the store.

When I asked about the kittens, the woman stocking the shelves asked if I knew much about cats. I explained that I had lost my cat of 20-years just two weeks ago to the day. She smiled at me, “Oh, then you know.”

She took us around front and opened the door to the upstairs apartment, explaining that the tenants had left it in an awful state and though they had come back for the mom of this brood, they had left the kittens behind. She was worried about them and had been bringing food but she needed to find them a good home.

The smell in the place was awful and got worse as we climbed up the stairs. There was a plastic bag full of empty mickeys of liquor. The couches were overturned and the rugs stained beyond repair. And yet this roughed-up place had charm: French doors to the living room, a skylight in the kitchen, an old clawfoot tub – and kittens.

Danette and I had a peek and saw one terrified grey kitten hiding in the back corner behind the fridge. In the other corner, all I could see was a flash of eyes.

The landlord told us about the difficult tenants, about why she couldn’t take the cats herself, about how she didn’t want to give them to just anybody. She glanced at me and said to Danette, “I look at her, and I know she’s going to love them.”

I called home.

I got through to my sister Shannon and gave her a quick rundown. And though my husband couldn’t hear the details there was something in our voices that had him respond, “Oh, no.”

Shannon handed over the phone. In the midst of a day of meetings, deliveries and repairs, Justin listened to me say, “I want to bring these three abandoned kittens home.” With the weight of the decision on his hands, Justin said, “How can I say no?”

As we left and I headed home to get the cat carrier, Danette reminded me that just over a week ago she texted me from the streetcar that she had had a vision of me with a grey cat.

Clearly this adventure was meant to be.

The Grey Kitten

Read what happened next.

Saying Goodbye

JRS Jinx Resting

On Friday, we said goodbye to our dear Jinx. After her stroke two years ago, every day has been a gift and still, it felt like it came too suddenly and too soon.

Jinx came home with me from the Toronto Humane Society when she was small enough to fit in the palm of my hand. We had 20 years together, through thick and thin for the both of us. She was a quirky little boo who had an extraordinary vocabulary. (I blame my sister Shannon for Jinx’s talkativeness; Shannon always meets a meow with a meow!) It was Jinx’s sad mew in the morning that let me know something was wrong.

Jinx was the kind of cat who sat in boxes that were too small for her, who thought most people were furniture and who would start meowing for breakfast if she heard you so much as turn over in bed. In recent years she loved to sleep with her face planted into her blanket and all her life she loved to have her ears rubbed. When she was younger, she was a bit of mischief. I remember walking into the living room and finding her perched on the top of an open door! I still don’t know how she got there. She was always a bit of a scared-y cat. In fact, she showed me that the cartoons aren’t exaggerating; cats really do bristle, jump straight up and say, “Pfzzzst!”

JRS  Jamie & Jinx

She never liked to be picked up but in the past couple of weeks she demanded it of us daily. She’d be underfoot until we’d relent, scooping her up into our arms, where she would relax and purr and gently headbutt.

We weren’t the only ones making sure there were lots of cuddles before it was time to go.

I miss her dearly already and know there will always be a spot in my heart reserved for our little Jinx. Thank you so much to everyone who has been sending love. All of us who are feeling the loss feel surrounded by love. Thank you.

2013-05-27 Jinx in the Studio